Don't mean to thread jack on the response, but since my son also has an ASD I thought I would jump in here.
Autistic kids often struggle tremendously with language, not just expressive, but also receptive. Gabe surely does.
I know with Gabe using picture, visual cues, and loads of prompting have helped. We use floor time, behavior modification, and picture schedules to help him start to develop language.
What kind of speech disorder/delay does your daughter have? If it is something called apraxia...apraxic kids don't always respond to typical speech therapy. Gabe needed a certain type of therapy called PROMPT.
We do 10hrs/wk of wraparound. He has a therapist (not speech) that works on his social language/skills, behavior, following directions, etc.
I hope that helps a little.
Jessie mommy to Gabe(4.6 years ASD/CAS/SID)and baby Zane
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