Hi, I seldom post, but was thinking of my baby today and checked out this site.
With grace and stride is how I would handle this. Take care of yourself and your little one. Often times when people are mourning, there seems to be a double loss. In some cases, your immune system maybe compromised and you don't want to have to deal with a illness on top of grieving over the loss of your precious little baby.
I just lost a dear colleague on Wednesday due to H1N1 complications. She taught Monday, went to the hospital Monday night and passed away Wednesday morning. She was 52, healthy, in great health and shape and had just won teacher of the year award the week before. Now her family is dealing with the loss of their Mother, Grandmother, and wife. Although this is the extreme side of H1N1, take care of yourself. I'm sure you can say, you don't need any more suffering in your home right?
Take care of yourself...You are so needed here...on earth. Who knows what the future may unfold.