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erikasmommy09

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Nov-1 6:53 pm

I just had my baby almost 3 months ago. My fiance has already been talkin about wantin another baby. Since he has been talkin about it so much its starting to get me wanting another one already and im just 16. Everytime we are, well you know doin stuff. He always says well let me plow but I keep sayin no. Last week I got 3 prego tests and they all said neg. I was happy but yet I was sad. My mom knows about the test and her and her hubby said that "well at least I got the baby making over with while I am still young". I dont know what to do. Is there anybody else that has feelings like this or went through something like this?! We are makin it pretty good with our 3 month old so far, so i really dont see a problem with it. What is your opinion?

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Nov-2 4:03 pm

I think you should def. wait. Your baby is only 3 months and you're only 16. Wait at least 2-3 years, so you can enjoy your baby and dont have 2 baby's at the same time. But I know how you feel. Me and my bf want a baby really bad. My son is already 2 and will be 3 in March and I'm 18 and my bf is 21. He tells me he wants a baby with me all the time[he's not my son's father]. I think we're ready but I want to be extra ready for our baby. Like I need to find a job and he does too because he just got out of the army. babys cost alot of money. We also want to get our own place before I get pregnant. Just think about all that and if u feel like you guys are ready then go for it. But my advice will be to wait wait wait! Good luck.

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Nov-2 4:13 pm

yeah i know what you mean. that is the thing not only we dont have a place of our own, our daughter is 3 months old. yeah im not goin to lie my gut says go for it and that i am ready. i mean i know i would have all the help in the world from my family, but im still not quite sure. but my main thing is my body. i dont want my body to look any worse than it already does from me having my daughter! even though it is normal! i have tried to talk to my fiance and tell him that i do want another baby but we dont have our own place and we still have a baby in diapers, but after i say that "but" its like he dont listen anymore all he hears is the "i want another baby" part. i just dont know how to explain it to were he will listen to everything!

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Nov-2 4:20 pm

Explain to him how hard it will be to have 2 baby's at the same time. How much they cost, formula,diapers,clothes,if they get sick etc...Does he have a job? Tell him that you want them to be at least 2 years apart but that you def want another baby. He should understand. You guys are both in this and like you said its your body and you just gave birth 3 months ago. You need time to really heal all that.

I hope he understands where you're coming from cause I really dont want you to do something you'll regret later on.