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I found it!!! my cervix that is..
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19974.4 in response to 19974.1
Yay!! I think how high "high" is, is a bit different for everyone. Just keep checking, same time every day, and you will start to see a pattern. At first, it's hard to tell, soft from firm, high vs low. It started making sense to me after I had checked every day for one cycle. It can be high if you haven't o'd. Mine gets to high and stays there for a while before I o, and then gradually gets softer and more open. However, you'll only really have a good handle on it once you've felt all the possibilities. When mine is high, I can't reach it easily.