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My name is Tracy.  I live in PA. I am 39 yo and have 3 wonderful children already.  My oldest is 20.  I also have a 12 yo son and a 6 yo daughter.  I had my tubes tied when my youngest was born.  I am divorced and my new boyfriend (not married quite yet) is only 33.  He has no children of his own.  We are considering a tubal reversal.  Just wondering if anyone has any tips.  First, we don't know anyone in the local area who does the surgery.  I am sure there ARE doctors in the are who do them, but I don't know any.  Second, does anyone know how effective the reversal would be given my age.  I never had a problem getting pregnant before, but I was much younger then.  :)  Any advice you can give me would be great.  Thanks.
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Tracy ~

Welcome to the group! I am so glad that you have found us. Although I am on the VR side of things, I can say there are knowledgable ladies from both sides on this board.

Many couples have traveled to get the reversal. That being said, you may find the perfect doctor outside of your area. Please dont limit yourself to a local doctor. Do the research and find the doctor that you feel most comfortable with.

I do not think your age should have any effect on the success of the reversal. There are obviously risks involved with the any surgery and it would be important for you and your DH to weight those risks against the potential benefits.

Good Luck to you and I hope to get to know you more as you progress along this journey!

 

 

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Welcome to the board! I too am a VR lady, but I wanted to give you encouragement. I was 38 1/2 when I got pg with my VR son and 39 when I gave birth. You are AMA and a lot of doctors will tell you not to try it (reversal and pg) but I say "go for it!" because there are many other doctors who support older moms. Find one of them, perhaps one that has children herself and did it at advanced maternal age. Many women are waiting until they are in their 30's or even 40's to have their first child. You have proven past fertility so why not give a TR a shot. Not doing it would surely be a regret and you'd always wonder "what if".

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Hi. 14 years after my TL I had a reversal last december. I was 41 at the time. They could only repair one tube; but I have been pg twice since then. I got pg in feb and had a miscarriage in April. I am now 25 weeks pg and due in February. :) Age is no factor in the TR process other than the usual factors in the PG area. :) Good luck!!

Paula

What would you attempt if you knew you could not fail?

Paula age 42. Mike age 37.
Tubal Ligation in 1994. Reversal 12/04/08. (1 tube repaired) 
Concieved 02/27/09. Miscarried 04/02/09.
Concieved 06/02/09. 14 DPO HCG = 927 | 16 DPO HCG = 2922
9/15/09 Amnio results show 100% perfect & healthy baby girl! I am SOOOOOO relieved!!!!

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