I would definitely recommend Kegels- they really do help a ton with toning things up.
I had a pretty severe tear with my first, and after a few months things felt pretty nice and tight up there again. I did a lot of "Super Kegels"- hold for 10 seconds 10 times in a row about 10 times a day. I did it while I was nursing and driving- lol! My Midwife said that for a few months things can remain swollen and a little more open up there than usual... but in time things do go mostly back to normal.
:-) Tamra