I'm a little late in posting but wanted to share. I too, never thought we'd get to discussing #2, but here we are with an almost 20 month old and I think DH is actually on board (most of the time). Even I swore right after Leanna was born that I wouldn't have another, now I'm starting to "dream" about my next baby. I really believe it will happen. Personally, we're going for the 3 year age spread since I require a reasonable amount of calm in my life and I want to be able to savor and enjoy my next baby too (and enjoy this time of having only one a little longer). Good luck with sticking to your decision and keep us posted!