Stepmoms / Bio Moms Debate

Due to the age of YDS, DH and I decided to get our family the H1N1 vaccine. With him being so young it is a fear that he could contract it and die. With that being said I made all of us (DH, ODS, MDS, SS, SD and myself) an appointment with the department of public health.

Would you be angry if the OP scheduled the shot/mist for your child without notifying you first? What if they didn't notify you at all? Instead you found out from the child.

*In regards to our situation this would not only protect our household (my primary concern) but also BM's. She is pregnant and due in February. If we didn't get the vax for the skids BM would likely not do it. Not because she is against vaccines but because she just isn't all that into shots anyways.

FTR DH has already made his decision as to what he is going to do. (There is no CO)

Yes, I would be MEGA pissed if my ex had my child injected with something I did not first approve.  Wouldn't you?!

Would you be angry if the OP scheduled the shot/mist for your child without notifying you first? What if they didn't notify you at all? Instead you found out from the child.

I absolutely would be highly pissed if I were the OP. Who is the custodial parent in this sitch?  

Most definitely I would be. But I was on the fence as to the fact that it could put my own kids health at risk. The skids are here 50% of the time so exposure would be inevitable.