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my son is 33 months old and we are FIGHTING to keep him in bed!  when he first transferred into a big boy bed around 2, he did great!!!  then after a month or so, he started getting out of his bed repeatedly every time we'd put him down.  we have tried lying with him on the sofa for a while, reading, talking, just putting him in bed...nothing is working.  some days are better than others, but i have another one due in 8 weeks and cannot continue with this every day and night!!  please help!!!
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honestly, since Logan moved to a regular bed, we've always gated his door. We encourage him to stay in his bed, but have found him asleep on the floor many times. The last couple months, however, he's started sleeping in his bed pretty much every night :) I've gated his door because his room is literally 6 inches from a set of stairs... but its been multipurpose :)

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First off...congrats on the new little one! I'm having a repeat c-section Dec 28th...8 weeks to go too!

We've never had trouble keeping Mara (she'll be 3 the 22nd) in bed. To this day she just calls out to us when she wakes in the AM and she's always gone down well for us at night. I think it's all about the routine-we've done the same thing every night since she was 6 months old. Have you tried just letting him CIO? Put him to bed and close the door-when he comes out just quietly put him back in bed. It works for the Super Nanny! LOL Sorry I'm not more help! :) GL!!

 

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My daughter did the same thing about 2 1/2. We don't use a gate but we use one of those safety doorknob covers so she can't let herself out. Her room is also a few feet from the top of the stairs. This gives us peace of mind that she's not roaming the house in the middle of the night and she sleeps a lot better now that she knows that she can't leave her room without Mommy and Daddy.
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We had very similar problems with our Son. It got so out of control, that we would be up for hours each night just trying to get him to stay in bed. We went and saw a behavorist, because I couldn't take it anymore.

Her advice was to have a bedtime routine (ie, bath, book, lights out, kisses, bed) which we already did, stick to the same time each night, which we already did and make it clear it is not a neogatition. She said do the routine, say goodnight and he is to stay in bed, and expect him to do it. Then each time he gets out, pick him up and put him back into bed. Which we started doing, this led to tanturms....after about 5 or 6 VERY LONG nights, no more problems.

Sounds very Super Nanny, I know, but it did work.

Good luck!!!

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