discussion title:
Wished Best Friend Would Miscarry
message #:
4961.20 in response to 4961.19
when I was 27 I didn't see the charm of babies either, and didn't understand my friends who did-- when they started having babies we naturally grew apart, then later grew back together... why not just accept that you and your friend have chosen different paths at this time?
find new friends who are more like you and be kind and courteous to your old faithful friend who suffered a terrible loss that you just can't understand at this time in your life.
she may be like a sister to you, but do you get it that she's a separate person from you ??
"We have much courage for the abstract, but not for the concrete."
-Helen Keller