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Are both children getting age appropriate nutrition when tandem feeding occurs?

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My understanding is that the milk is tailored to the younger child.  During pg, milk reverts back to colostrum, which is then more plentiful after delivery, becoming mature milk on the usual timetable.

If both infant and older child are nursing from both breasts, the milk remains more suited for the infant, though it certainly isn't "bad" for the older child, who likely is BFing significantly less often than the infant as well.

If mom assigns sides, e.g. infant feeds on right, older child on left, based on the frequency of feedings, duration of feedings (and ?suck strength) the left side (in this example) would revert back to a milk more suited to the older child's needs (more of a weaning milk, more concentrated).

However, it's not necessary to assign sides if tandem feeding; it's not dangerous for an older child to get milk suited for an infant.



 
  
 

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<<However, it's not necessary to assign sides if tandem feeding; it's not dangerous for an older child to get milk suited for an infant.>>

I agree that it is not necessary to assign sides though I noticed something interesting with certain moms who ended up assigning sides. They had previously reported feeling the hee-bee jee-bee's when tendam nursing prior to assigning sides but once they assigned the baby and the toddler their own sides this feeling went away (for the most part). I found this interesting and I wondered why this would occur. Since their is little research on the subject I can only speculate though. Maybe it has something to do with ensuring the each child get more age specific BM though given that only a small percentage of tandem feeders report needing to assign sides I not so sure that fully explains it.

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As a tandem feeder who mostly had them stick to one side, I think it's because their actual suck is different. I can't really describe how. You don't notice if you have one child grandually changing their suck but when you have two with a good age gap, you do notice and that probably contributes to the heebie jeebies - just that the breast gets used to the suck it normally gets but if that changes constantly, it can feel a bit weird.

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Interesting. I assigned sides, so I didn't experience that.

I read somewhere the kangaroos? tandem and there milk is tailored to the age of the joey.


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