Breastfeeding

Congratulations on your pregnancy!  You DH can bond with her with out feeding her.  Rocking her and singing to her is a great bonding experience.  That being said, if he wants to feed her you can avoid nipple confusion but feeding her with a cup or syringe.  Here's a link on more info:
http://www.kellymom.com/bf/pumping/alternative-feeding.html

Some babies have no problem switching from bottles to breast.  And then again some babies will outright refuse a bottle.  You won't know until you try.  Good luck!

It is general recommended by breastfeeding experts to wait at least three weeks for breastfeeding to be somewhat established before introducing a bottle in order to reduce the risk of nipple confusion. While some babies given a bottle in the first three weeks will not experience nipple confusion. there is really no way to know ahead of time if a particular baby will be one of the lucky ones that won't.

Regarding fathers and bonding, it is not necessary for the father to be involved in feeding the baby in the early weeks in order to bond. My DH can attest that he bonded just fine with his newborn son through other activities other then bottle feeding in the early weeks. I have also heard from others fathers who bonded with their newborns just fine without giving bottle right away (or ever in some cases).

Some of the activities dad can do to bond with his baby are:

* Hold the baby, cuddle with the baby, rock the baby, etc.
* Give the baby a bath.
* Take the baby for a walk in a sling or other carrier.
* Interact with the baby through singing, talking to it, etc.

On fathers and breastfeeding:
http://www.dy-dee.com/html/breastfeeding_fathers.html

My daughter, born Sept 24, flat out refused to take a bottle from anyone other than me.  I exclusively breastfeed, and I pump, so we were trying to get her to take bottles of breast milk in case my husband is ever alone with her, or if we need to leave her with my parents.  We tried all different types of Avent nipples and Playtex nipples and nothing seemed to matter, she would take them all from me but wouldnt take anything from anyone else.  After I would feed her from a bottle she would struggle a little with her latch.

I went out and bought an Adiri bottle and she took that from my husband, my mother and a family friend with no problem!  We were shocked.  The Adiri bottles simulate the mothers breast.  Adiri is really expensive however, and I came across Breastflow by First Years and purchased a few of those.  Those work amazing well also.

Good luck!