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Guidance office messed up need advice.
Hi My name is Robin and posted this on the other gifted board, but I thought I might try to get input from you guys so here goes.
Today my friend asked me if my son was taking the SAT on 1/28 with the rest of the 7th graders that qualified. I said that my son must not have qualified, but I wondered if I could pay for him to take it anyway to get the experience. So I called the guidance office and his counselor said he could not take it if he did not qualify and his name was not on the list of qualified candidates that she had compiled in October. She also said all the deadlines to apply to take the test had passed anyway. I said thank you and hung up figuring "nothing lost he couldn't do it anyway." Then she called back an hour later saying "don't know how your son did not end up on the October list, he is eligible but we inadvertantly missed him." Now it is too late to take the test even though he should have had the opportunity.
Initially I thought "no big deal it is meaningless anyway and just something he would do for practice." But my husband is livid. He thinks ds lost a great opportunity, because ds really rocks on math tests like the SAT. So does anyone have experience with this? Did we miss a big opportunity? My husband wants to call the Principal and yell (very unlike dh.) I told him we need to pick our battles and while this is unfair it is not a big deal in the whole scheme of things. Any advice? What would you do?
Thanks for any advice,
Robin