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Economy causing parenting clashes?

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I thought this was an interesting story.  Has the economy caused more stress or clashes over parenting in your house?

Economy adds stress to clashes over parenting

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/33617714/ns/today-parenting_and_family/

Meals. Bedtime. Discipline. The reasons parents clash over the kids are endless, especially now that more unemployed dads are filling in for back-to-work moms as the bad economy grinds through a second year.

Nerves are definitely taut on today's home front, compounding the challenge for parents looking to navigate and negotiate disparate views on child-rearing.

"I've never seen such stress in parents and families," said Michele Borba, a psychologist and mother of three boys who has written 22 books on parenting. "The recession is causing stress, number one. And number two, it's a pressure-packed world. Parents are very often at that level when they think being a to-do list is more important than who they are."

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It has impacted us to some point. In our house, I am the good-cop and DH is usually the bad cop always saying no. If we disagree on something, tho, we try to keep it out of the childrens' views and talk about it in private, then come back out at a united front. DH is not working at this time, he is staying home and keeping the kids, which is also adding fuel to the fire.
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