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Coming out later in life...

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  Sep-1 9:00 pm

I believe that the reason some people come out later in life is lonliness...They need love...We all need this nurturing...and without anyone to lean on and find what they so sorely need, that they will accept the same sex...I have heard of doctors suggesting this to women in sexual want...I believe as a woman ages that her hormones go the opposite of what all books tell us...Maybe the same may be true for men, but I doubt it...Many of them are just plain afraid...Afraid of rejection and afraid of their own sexual prowess with a woman....
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  Sep-2 11:10 pm

OMG!
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I can lead you to a very big site with a popular writer behind it, where a woman posted of her GYN suggesting this...As a woman ages she does not sexually die off...Men do unless they are nutured...Women come out later in life because, why not?...What else is there to do?...At least they have friendship....Men start slowing down in their early 40's if not sooner...The amount of women from 40 on up that want sexual relief is very high...I don't fault them...I feel sorry for them....
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  Sep-3 6:22 am

No, thank you. I don't care how "popular" that site or writer may be. I'm positive it will be full of garbage.
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  Sep-3 10:31 am

I was not looking for her site...I was looking for information on and about her...She wrote "Sex and the Seasoned Woman" plus many other books...I saw this over three years ago...

All women need love...Each chooses a different path in life...Some hide it and some find it in a "by chance" happening...It is life....Thanks for your response...I am off of this Topic.....
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