Just to add, the snowball effect of how people became much faster acceptance grew once the gay community could let people know who we actually were (ie. their siblings, daughters, neighbours, best friends, etc.), and that we could openly push for rights.
(And of how even I, personally, saw myself differently.)
Rambling on lol :)
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