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baby shower for your 5th w/4boys?

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I wanted to know should i consider having a baby shower even though this will be my 5th but i have all boys?

 

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Of course your should!

Since you are asking for advice, this is my take:

Do you know the gender? if not, or if it's a boy, then make it plain that this is a welcome baby no matter what and having the shower underlines that statement. Also make it plain if you don't appreciate jokes about how this is your girl at last or how many times you will try to get a girl or that sort of nonsense jokes.

Maybe consider a wish list along the lines of gift certificates, mom indulgences or more family/communal items since most likely you have all the baby stuff you need bar a few perishables.

More likely you'd appreciate an apple peeler for making apple deserts and sauces (I have a great one, not electric, just screws the apple through a peeler and core remover), or a Wii with fun indoor gaming activities, or a high chair, or a diaper service, or help putting in a vegetable garden, or a shaded hammock, or... you get the point.

 

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I would never have thrown myself a baby shower, even for #1, so I wouldn't do it that way, but if someone offered, I would go for it. I don't expect I'll end up with one for #2, who is a boy. If somewhere down the line, someone offers for one of my later kids, I would certainly like that.
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I don't see why not :) Baby showers are fun and people like attending and besides it is a wonderful way to welcome a baby into a family before they are even born :)
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Thanks so much for all the replys. No my mother was saying that if it is a boy now shower but if it is a girl everyone is going to want to give me a shower. But i would just feel werid i know i shouldn't but this is #5
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