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Palin's 17-year-old daughter pregnant
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4017.85 in response to 4017.80
>>There were headlines about some "potentials" discussing why they would not run for VP if asked....they have been on various newspapers for some time now. Although, honestly... they wouldnt' have had to say WHY....I am sure if she heard that it was turned down she would feel enough guilt from it on her own....and people would put two and two together on their own once it was known that she was pregnant (with or without truth to it....just look what they did and the stories they came up with sayign Bristol was the mother of Trig).<<
So she needed to take the job lest she turn it down for family reasons, not necessarily limited to not wanting to put her daughter under a microscope right now, and the media speculate erroneously about her reasons and her daughter read that inaccurate speculate and felt guilty? OK.
>>Of course your judgement is better today then it was then.....I am sure ones judgement is better at 27 then 17 and better at 37 then at 27...etc etc etc. But it doesn't mean that you were incapable of making choices about your own life. It doesn't mean that at 17 you wouldn't be able to say "mom, I don't want you to not take the nom b/c of me"....and that you shouldn't take that seriously. If that is indeed what she said to her mother, I have no idea....but if she did....do I think she REALLY understands what that means and what is to come...no, probably not. But I just dont' agree that she needs to be "sheltered" from it either.<<
and we disagree. I do not think there is anyway a 17 year old knows what the media scrutiny will be like, particularly a 17 year old from a very small town in a very remote state. Even as the daughter of the governor she was exposed to very little and remained living in her home town.
>>Personally, I didn't know she was pregnant and I doubt that many people did so I don't think we can say no one gives a rip. I have no doubt that she would have gotten media exposure (granted at a local level....but I have to wonder if it would be at a national level given her mothers stance on sex ed in schools). I remember the big hoopla when Sarah announced her pregnancy...and later her birth.....so I am sure we would have heard the same about her daughter<<
You are from her hometown? I just read an article by a reporter (very impressed with her by the way) who has been there for a while and says the folks there knew and didn't care. The media scrutiny comes soley as a result of mom's choices.
>>and it amuses me that those who are giving it the most publicity are the same ones are booing Sarah for "Forcing" her child into the spotlight (are the same ones who were so quick to throw here into the spotlight by saying she was Trig's mom)....<<
Not me. I've certainly not played that game in any way shape or form.
The pregnancy is the girl's responsiblity (along with her boyfriend), making the pregnancy into a media spectacle is entirely Mom's responsiblity. Do I feel this way about every candidate with a kid? Nope, though I'd feel the same way about any candidate with a kid who was in a position where media scrutiny would be potentially quite differnt than the norm -- a child with mental health concerns, a child with special educational needs, a child who was acting out and finding it difficult to manage "norma" behavior -- and a pregnant teenager. The other children of Palin are not being placed into this position.
Though I have to wonder if she should be elected, will her son have to be removed from Iraq out of concern he'll be a target? I know that is a concern among those whose children are knows -- the British royal family for example.
Rose