Pregnancy & Parenting After Infertility

First of all I can't believe you came and posted on this board all those reason you wished she wasn't pg. I totally agree with the other woman IF is devestating and to loose a child unborn is HEARTBRAKING. I trully hope she does not know how you really felt and if she does WOW because our friendship would have ended because that is not a definition of friendship. I just found out I was pg after sooo many yrs of trying with my husband and one of my closest friends said to me i'm kinda sad becasue I feel like I am loosing my right hand gal (clubbing, sports games, drinking) and what I said to her was she is selfish and just because she doesn't want kids doesnt mean I want her life and it opened up my eyes to what kind of supporter and friend she is. You didn't want to be there for her while she was pregnant so why try and comfort her now becase it wouldn't be genuine.

I will be praying for some peace and comfort for your friend and her family...