I'm glad I found this board! I started at TTC, then hopped over to adoption, then to foster parenting, and now I'm here. I was also at some debate boards, but it's scary there.. I try to stay away from them, but I end up going back, arghh. Anyway, my husband and I have a 6 year old son and now we can't get pregnant. We've been trying for over a year, and have not been using BC for three years now. We found out that my husband's sperm quality is at 97% abnormal. It was at 99% and he was taking fertility supplements as the doc recommended, but it only improved 2% in 3 months. The doctor doesn't understand why it would only improve that much, but he acts like it's a good thing that it has improved and says it'll continue. I am not as hopeful as the doctor.
Well, it will be interesting to see what happens. We are starting foster parenting classes this Monday. It's something we want to do to keep our heads out of this TTC disappointment.