When staying at someone's house as a guest, how much do you "clean up" before you leave? I try to leave everything just as I left it, if possible.
Do you make the bed? If that's what the hostess wants.
Do you pull the sheets off? If that's what the hostess wants.
Take out your trash? Nope, never done this.
Does it depend on the person you're staying with? Yes, usually depends. Generally if we stay at a friend's house I'll just ask what she prefers me to do.