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I'm in PA.

 

I tried looking it up online, but am not clear on the current legislation in PA.   It seems a bit "gray".

Apparently there was a push to teach abstinence-only SE around the nation a few years ago, and as a result, no one is arguing that teen pregnancy, teen sex and STD's zoomed much higher.  Proof shows that SE that teaches about birth control and how to prevent STDs works a heck of a lot better in preventing these things than abstinence-only programs.

So I am not sure of the exact curriculum that is approved for SE in PA, but I do know that parents have the option of signing a paper requesting that their child opt out from the course.

 

I figure, "if it's broke, fix it!"  If teen pregnancy and STD rate went much higher after the state implemented an abstinence-only SE, then that pretty much tells you it is not working very well!

I think that not only should children be educated about birth control, STD prevention AND abstinence, I think they should be taught about the emotional aspects of relationships and the ramifications of having sex before adulthood.

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Teaching abstinence does NOT work. Its idiotic at best in western society. IMO we should follow The Netherlands in what they do, they have one of the lowest rates of teenage pregnancy in Europe. We should follow their cue and start sex ed young. Not just discussing sex, but relationships. Give children a healthy respect for their bodies and others.
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  Oct-30 10:42 am

I may as well just follow you around, we seem to have a lot of the same views.  I could not agree with you more.   VERY well said.   

 

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