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Hi!  Ive been lurking on this board for awhile, but now we need some serious help.  We have had 2 heelers for 4 years, a male and a female. Our female is 5 years old, and came from the shelter. Our male is 4 yrs old. They get along very well and the male is definitely the dominate one. 2 weeks ago we took in another little female heeler that was going to be given to the shelter if we didnt take her. Her owner moved away.  She is 5 yrs old, was never socialized, and was only allowed in 1 room of her owner's house.  She was paper trained, so we had to housebreak her. We think her owner abused her. she loves the freedom and attention so much here that she fights with the other dogs when we try to give them some attention. How can we stop the jealousy & fighting?  Somehow we need to convince her that there is enough attention and love for all of them. Thanks for any help you can give us!!
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  Nov-9 12:58 pm

While I'll admit I'm not an expert with hounds- having Wire Fox Terriers- this kind of behavior is quite common in Terriers- esp. Female terriers. In our kennel we rarely can have 2 females at the same time in the house w/o a fight breaking out. In my kennel- I have only 1 female that will get along with anyother  dog/female in the kennel and she is the expception beleive me! Her daughter is somewhat like that too- but she is still young (at 7mos)  

Part of your answer is in your post: you say she was never socailized- so she is not used to having other dogs around and having to vie for attention. IMO this maybe a long road - or next to impossible to cure entirely. You don't say how long you've had her. I would try seperating her from the other dogs as a start- put up some baby gates so she has "space" and the other dogs have "space" let them sniff/ see each other  but have no direct contact. Continue to talk,praise, play with her- but seperate from the others. Then with her on a leash- (after maybe a few weeks of this seperation) have another family member walk her into a room with the other dogs- give all of them attention- if she starts to fight with the others because they are getting attention- tell her NO-Stop! - and make get into a sit position. Keep her on the leash. Then pet/talk to the others again (and her too) This should help her realize that ALL will get attention - but that she cannot get aggressive to get it! Has she been spayed?  How about the others? This may help somewhat -

I know some of the other ladies on this list will have other suggestions- there is a "nothing in life is free" method- this maybe what she needs too. While not impossilble to get a 5yr old dog to accept others if she truly was never properly socialized (this takes place initally at around 6wks-8wks of age) she may never be able to be 100% comfortable with other dogs.

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Hi luvmyheelers and Welcome...I'm so glad you finally decided to "delurk"....  I'm Laura and I'm the furmom to a 14YO dalmatian, Samantha and 4YO lab/mix, Cleo.

I'm so glad that foxymom chimed in on this...since she's an experienced breeder and show dog owner she has had a lot of experience with dogs.  I'm also glad she mentioned "Nothing In Life Is Free".  This way of training may be helpful in not only controlling your new little girl, but your other dogs as well.

I know that with a lot of love and attention all your furkids will soon get along better.  That poor little thing....who knows what sort of life she had before you took her in.  If she is not socialized then she was probably ignored most of her life....if not worse.

Good luck...and please continue to keep us updated.

 
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Thanks for all of your help.  We have had our new little girl almost a month now.  It seems like she is starting to calm down some, and although she still challenges our dominate male a few times a day she is starting to back down some too.  Their fights sound terrible, but no one gets hurt and I think theyre mostly just alot of snarling & barking.  She's completely house trained & crate trained now.  Lets just hope things continue like this!!
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