Hi blindsighted,
Unfortunately, I am new on here. I found out about 9 weeks ago that my husband cheated. Our stories are somewhat similar. (Although he didn't have sex with the girl, there was touching and kissing. He stopped it before it went any further. She initiated it.) We had a great marriage before this and no one can believe HE would do something like this. He told me about it just a couple days after it happened. There was no way I could have found out if he wouldn't have told me. He's very sorry and is really trying hard and got us in to counseling. I've hardly told anyone. I guess I am supposed to be thankful that he told me and didn't go any further and that he really is sorry but it still hurts like h#ll. I still have some pretty bad moments. I hope you don't mind me bothering you but I am curious as to how you and your husband are doing, how you have dealt with everything, now that a little more time has passed. Thanks.
biowoman25
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