Basics of Sex

Hi Heather,

You seem to pose this question often, perhaps, however,  you should define what you mean by the word "sex"and open it for discussion rather than prompting for a yes, no, maybe answer. I can't quite understand why polling this in so many different ways to get the same black and white outcome is so important to you.

In my opinion "sex" is a rather large umbrella term for many intimate acts and even in instances where one proclaims to be chaste for religious reasons, thus they abstain from sexual intercourse  until marriage, they still engage in other "sex" acts. This to me is hypocritical as in my opinion one is "pure/chaste" of sexual thoughts and encounters or not.

Are you pure/chaste or are you just refraining from intercourse before marriage?

Has your Church ever defined the word "sex". And if so, does your faith OK other "sex" acts before marriage?

Basics of Sex

How many times are you going to post the same poll?  Are you expecting different results each time you post it and why are you so obsessed with what other people do sexually?

I did not abstain from sex until marriage and I never planned to abstain until marriage.  I am a sexual being and I saw no reason not to enjoy sex until I had that piece of paper saying I'm married. 

Let me give you analogy

When buying a car, I not only test drive it....but give it a damn good flogging to compare it to other vehicles of the same calibre. I need to know I'm making the right choice.