I'm going to take a stab in the dark and say that he doesn't actually want sex every night and is only having it because the sexual relationship is new and fresh. If he had a choice, or rather his body had a choice, he would be happy with sex 4-5 times a week (perhaps less).
I think what you're seeing is that his body just can't cum or orgasm because he's been orgasming every night and his body just wants a break. Yes, you're sexy; Yes, he's enjoying the sex; Yes, you arouse him, but his body just can't quite get there and cum some nights....
Usually in a new relationship the sex starts with a hiss and a roar. You have lots of it all the time. After a while (which varies from couple to couple) the frequency reduces. You don't do it as much. Going well, you both have similar libidos and you both have sex often enough to keep the two of you happy but not so often you're getting worn out all the time.