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I want it casual, but he...(DETAILED!)
I met this guy, let's call him "Robert", at my friend's workplace. Robert is kind of like me. He doesn't like relationships, but he does enjoy sex. I've always thought he was cute and I thought he would be fun to have sex with, casually of course. So I went over to his place and it was amazing. It was my first time for pretty much everything we did. It was great, it was fun, he was very easy to talk to, and we got along great. We did the same thing the next night and all of a sudden, he starts to talk about hanging out outside of the bedroom, like the movies and going out to eat at fancy resteraunts. I'm a little worried/pissed because of the fact that the first night, we promised, and I quote "We're not going to be promising anything. This is casual, right?" We both agreed to that, then out of the blue, along comes the words "chemistry" and "date". How can I tell him that I just want it to stay casual without sounding like I'm a (Bluntess alert) slut?