discussion title:
Challenge: Make a 69er Worth the Trouble
This one won't work for my relationship. I love to give my wife oral, but she rarely will let me (she said she's afraid of loosing control while I'm doing it) and she has never given me oral sex - always refusing saying she used to do it, but it's not her favorite thing to do, so she decided before dating me that she would never do it again. I used to ask her to try doing it again, and she said "maybe now that were are a married couple, it might not be so bad", but our 14th anniversary is this year and she has yet to try (and I stopped asking somewhere around 12 years ago). I have tried getting in the 69 position, and at best I might get to give her oral pleasure, but most often than not she just wants me to manually stimulate her to climax and then she'd done doing anything sexually for awhile.
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