Better Sex, Better Relationships

When my bf and I first had sex I felt it was promising. But after a couple of months all foreplay pretty much stopped and it seemed it was all about dealing with his ED problem and helping him maintain an erection so he could finish. It was never much about me, which seems unusual at our ages (50ish). After a few talks about how I did not appreciate being left hanging, he pretty much stopped doing that, but he has just never had the enthusiasm for sex that I wish he had. I want to try different things and have lots of foreplay and he doesn't seem to get it. I've talked to him and even sent him an article which talked about the importance of foreplay to women and what it consists of. He tries sometimes, but way too often I'm left frustrated and feeling as if my pleasure is a lot of trouble for him.

My last bf would have done anything to please me and I guess I got a bit spoiled. I'm just not ready to give up the excitement and satisfaction that I believe sex can bring. I don't know what else to do and feel ready to give up.