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The Urge and what to do

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  Oct-25 10:54 am

I have the urge to sleep with women. Ever since i was in high school i was attracted to females. I found myself watching their butts as they pass and fantasizing about what it would be like to have sex with a girl. I finally got the nerve to have sex with a girl and i did, more then once. But i met this guy and he never did like it so i stopped. We broke up and he broke my heart. Ever since i can't even keep a boyfriend. i am so tired of guys and there lame sex. They never please me. I am with a guy now but he never does please. He does not even know how to make love to me or even how to be romantic. I try to teach him and tell him so many times, but i guess he does not get it.

Now all i have is the urge to be with another woman. I keep lookng at other females and fantazing about what it would be like to be in bed with them. I just want to explore, but i do not know how to go about doing it. I am in college so i do not know how to find another girl like myself. I watch their butts as they pass by and want to grab and squeeze. I do not know if this is natural or not or if something is wrong with me?

Please to help...

Thanks. Latoya

 

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The Urge and what to do

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  Oct-26 10:39 am

Latoya ~

I don't think anything is wrong with you.  I think you are confused.  I also think you are spending too much time thinking about what you want and not out getting it.  lol

Obviously you are attracted to females.  Now, you can sit and ponder and try to figure things out.  Or, you can get your behind out there and find another woman who shares the same feelings as you do.

I think sometimes we spend too much time trying to figure our feelings out and not enough time doing something about them.

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The Urge and what to do

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  Oct-26 2:47 pm

I know its so confusing. Its just the urges that i have been having and its getting fustrating. Thanks fo the advice, now all i need to do is to go out there and find someone like me. Hopefully soon and it won't be that hard.

Latoya

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  Oct-28 10:04 am

Great attitude!!  Lots of luck sweetie!!!

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  Nov-3 7:20 pm

Hi, Latoya! I agree there is nothing wrong with you. Go for it get yourself a female honey if it will make you happy. So you are fond of a nice backside what is wrong with that? Hmmm maybe the only problem is that we haven't met. LOL! I happen to be a Bi woman who loves a good grab on the butt. She is out there for you just waiting to have that special touch. Just don't start grabbing at random you could get smacked and get into trouble we don't want that now. I won't even get started on how much I admire the female figure! But let me behave myself and just say this politely nothing is wrong with you ok. And a lot of men don't have a clue about how to make love and how to be romantic you are not alone there. I am not saying that there aren't men that know how to do that but it seems to be a common problem. Don't worry there is help for you. I Wish you all the best. Take care
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