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Confused....!!!!

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  Nov-1 11:26 pm

Ok...where to begin...my 4 yr old started VPK this year at a school in a town that I recently moved to b/c my husband had to transfer b/c of work. Anyway...I'm really attracted to one of my daughter's friend's mothers. I am so attracted to her. I can't help but look for her when I drop off my daughter. I know I probably stare at her when I see her but I'm hoping it isn't obvious. Then the other day she asked me where had I been and seemed really upset that I didn't bring my daughter to school one day. I had to take my oldest to the orthodontist out of town. I don't know what to think of it. She's living with her daughter's dad and I'm married. I don't know if her being upset that I wasn't there meant that she was interested in me or seriously what it meant. I really like her so I don't want to get the wrong idea. What do you think? I know it is probably hard to give any interrpretation b/c you really weren't there to hear how she asked or anything but I don't know. You know...sometimes I really wish I didn't have these feelings. I wish I could just be normal whatever that is.Maybe that is my whole problem in my life ...is that I am not normal. Why do I like both women and men. Why can't I just be like most people and be happy w/ just my husband. It's sooooo frustrating to feel this way. It really feels like a curse.
Tracey
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Confused....!!!!

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  Nov-2 10:17 am

tracey ~

Yup, feels like a curse sometimes!!  But you can't help who you are.

hmmmmmm, that is a sticky one.  I would just take it slowly and see what happens.  Feel her out a bit.

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  Nov-3 6:03 am

Don't feel guilty because you have these feelings. There are many women that feel the same as you do who don't admit it because of guilt.

If you really have the need you're not going to be a complete woman until you have the experience.  Go to Struggle of exploring and marriage and read my post.

DD

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