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  Nov-4 9:32 pm

Okay, I'm pretty much a straight female, but I tend to like what I like. I met and had an almost instantaneous attraction to a new female friend. Over the last few weeks, I've grown to care for her deeply in a more than friendly way. She knows I like her and she admitted to liking me too. We've even kissed a few times! BUT... now I feel like she's no longer interested and I feel uncomfortable bringing it up because she acts really detached and uninterested. I really really like her and although I don't want to be in a relationship with her, I would love to just be able to be affectionate with her. My question is: should I just let it go and secretly seethe on the inside every time I'm around her because I want to kiss her or tell her how I feel and hope that her resistance is due to her being equally confused about why she's attracted to another female?
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  Nov-4 11:53 pm

What a confusing sitation to be in! She showed a little interest and now she is backing away. And you haven't talked about it because you are afraid of bringing it up. She may be feeling the same way, but you wouldn't know, because you both might be avoiding it. My opinion - I would ask her if she wanted to talk about it or drop it and forget about it. If you talk about it things would be out in the air. On the other hand, forgetting about could be exactly what she wants and there is an answer there. Wishing you the best.
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