Breaking Up Is Hard to Do

Not trying to beat a dead horse here, but I am baffled and pissed off.

My ex keeps calling after I told him that you cant just come back after 2 months of no contact (probably out screwing everything in site). I answered the phone the other night because he litarally would NOT stop calling and sending text messages. He was throwing things in my face about the child we could have had (low blow-I wanted to try for a baby in a few yrs) and just said he was taking time for himself...The thing that pisses me off is that he is NOT a good man for me and yet he keeps calling and leaving these mean messages that are really beginning to make me mad...it was all my fault, etc. I am telling you that I was not perfect, but I was way too good for HIM (in the love dept and being a decent person and faithful person) He was a liar, a cheat and just an all around jackass and I finally broke myself from him and here he is pissing me off.

I am trying not to let it make me mad, but its like if I don't pick up it is message after message (hes 35 by the way). I am just venting more than anything. Thanks for listening.

A side note: I know this is more of a game to him than him actually wanting to be with me again, ignoring him is getting harder because I wanna pick it up and curse him out.

Not to beat a dead horse, but I'm fairly certain either myself or probably most likely Carrie or someone else on this board has suggested that you block his calls.

If not directly to you, then I'm positive that in any situation like this, where the contact becomes cumbersome, distracting, annoying or even abusive-- the suggestion is always to block the calls.

There's no point in getting upset about it, just stewing in your own juices.

Don't get mad, get moving.