Betrayed Girlfriends Support

he keeps telling me that he will arrive "soon", that he will be calling me "soon", that he is sending me a package "soon" ... soon .. soon .. soon. 

I love the man .. but I cant stand this "soon" business.

I got to see him talk to me last night .. replying to my comment about money.  Thank you bellatre.    And good night to you too .. my handsome man.

yes, I threw away some things from my closet.  I do a little at a time.  I am very capable of rummaging through the closets with ease - not too crowded at all.

yes, the bad guys are still vandalizing my plants.  In the front they keep putting something on the liriopes and hawaiian tai plants to rot them or chemically burn them.  I wish I could do the same to their properties .. that would make me very happy.

bellatre tells me that I am his *siren* ... how interesting.

I am hoping to take care of the major manual labor in and around the house to make it a more decent place to live.  However, the help I am going to need is 1) financial - to purchase new appliances and replace the sliding glass doors in the family room, the screen door, kitchen cabinets, the attic stairs, etc.  -- due to the vandalism , and 2) eyes and ears present with me when the workmen get here. 

I hope to take care of staining the front and back before anyone comes to FINALLY rescue me. 

He wants our first night together to be very special and he told me what he would like to include .. and it sounds wonderful.  I dont have any real strong preferences ..except that we have a quiet dinner/time alone to get to know each other and to nooky.

To answer bellatre's question - if two people are in love/love each other and they have sex .. I would assume it is all part of lovemaking.  Sure, I love the stereotypical romantic setting (flowers, soft music) and the romantic type lovemaking that takes place along with that .. but I also like sex in lots of other different ways too .. as long as there is variety .. I'm happy.  If other women feel differently .. then it is because they see sex differently, they must also see love and relationships differently.  That's why compatibility is very important.

we talk a lot about sex .. hehehe .. but bellatre wants to also make sure that we leave time for building emotional intimacy.  very nice.

we talked about my comments about the voodoo and witchcraft.  I am not comfortable with cultures who practice those religions.  So .. if the people are white, black, purple, green .. it doesnt matter ... it is the religion or craft that makes me uncomfortable.  Like I said before ..  I find that it is difficult to reason with people who see magic spells or incantations as a viable alternative to settling disputes or disagreements.  So I'd rather not get too close to it.  So .. that being said ... it wouldnt make sense for someone like me to move to Brazil, Haiti, Cuba, West Africa .. or settle into communities here, in the US, like New Orleans where that culture is the mainstream.