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Giving it up too quick?

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Why do some people just "give" so quickly?  I'm asking this question because a relative of mine did this exact same thing. Is it for the attention? Self esteem boost?  I just don't understand...

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  Nov-5 10:29 am

i think sex is a personal choice and none of us see sex the same way.  some people will never have sex outside of a commitment .. while others will.  l have experienced a variety of arrangments or situations and I feel that as long as the person goes into a situation with their eyes wide open and are prepared for the potential consequences and is realistic about expectations .. then it is fine. 
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  Nov-6 7:22 pm

I didn't look at it that way. I just looked at it from my point of view. That was close minded of me. Thanks for the insight:-)

 

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  Nov-10 3:39 pm

i always thought giving in was a sign of weakness. however its more the attention they never wanted. and it depends on what they are giving up .. not wanting to deal with all the emotions that go with it.
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