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can LL be helped with hormones?

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  Oct-23 12:13 pm

Hi all, I'm a mature female on bio-identical hormone replacement therapy ( think Suzzane Sommers controversial 'The Sexy Years") with a HL in the beginning stages of a new relationship - absolutely fabulous man in every respect except for libido. 

We have discussed the differences lightly but enough to understand there is a substantial difference in need and interest.  

Men can also go on hormone replacement therapy - so here's my question...

Is anyone familiar enough with men going on hormone therapy to know if their sex drive does or can go up?     I understand it can dramatically improve the ability, length and strength of erections but does it increase your actual libido?

Any help appreciated as I don't want this to be a deal breaker but worried .....thx.

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  Oct-24 10:54 am

Male hormone replacement therapy, also known as TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) is relatively new and there have not been a lot of studies done on the risks v benefits. The studies done have been short term and with small groups of men. From what I understand, many have reported an increase in libido.

Andropause is a change in the male hormone balance, much as menopause is to women. If the LL is caused by a decline in testosterone, your guy may be a candidate for replacement therapy. As with female hormone replacement therapy, the potential benefits have to be weighed against the risks - the risks with testosterone replacement therapy are not yet clear.

Not much help I know...

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  Oct-26 12:36 am

Thanks, that actually does help a lot.  I appreciate the time you took to respond.  Congrats on your sucessful life.

 Deb

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I can tell you first hand that HRT can send your sex drive through the roof. I think my wife is happy. But tired. But happy.
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Thank you so much for the first hand comment.

So delighted for both you and your wife.  Enjoy and I hope to be there soon myself! 

Thanks for the motivation to continue on that path. 

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