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Hello! I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He is 40 years old but I find sometimes he is still like a child and that brings me to my issue.

People can share a quick message on Windows Live Messenger and he posted one a few days ago which made me wonder which is a pick-up line that says: 'If your left leg is Christmal and your right leg is New Years, could I come between the holidays?'

I know he has quite a few women on his msn from before he met me who he would sometimes chat with but I never really saw him chat with them after we started dating but don't you think that message sends out a certain message?

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To whom did he send this inappropriate message?  It certainly has sexual implications.
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I think that's something a man with a childlike brain would say to anyone regardless of intent, if any. As far as pick-up-line jokes go anyway, that one is pretty bad.
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He didn't send this to 1 particular person, this a message you can share on your msn which all the people you have on your msn can see/read.

He probably thinks it's funny but I find this a bit disturbing.

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I think it's funny. If it's posted to 'all', then it's pretty obviously a joke.

 

 

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