The Dating Game

so...ive just met this new guy like 2 weeks ago. he's adorable! he's just seems down to earth but he's started saying all these things on how he thinks im incredible and how i have the best smile ever. And, this worrys me..i know i have my issues i have a really hard time trusting men and the smoother they seem the less i trust him.

How can i stop this, i know im going to scare good men away if i keep acting so jaded? How can i tell if his words are genuine or not? The only thing that makes me think he might be telling the truth is that we've hung out a couple times but he's been really respectful and we havent even kissed yet!!!

advice? thanks ivillage <3

Compliments are great, but you'll want to see if his words are backed up with action. Is *hanging out* all you're doing? Is he asking you out? What's the story here?

I'm a girl. That means I want to be treated special. And that means actions speak.

Well...

Its true all we have done is hang out. He didnt even kiss me for the first time until last after the yankee game :) which was the 4th time we've hung out but we have been talking via text n phone everyday for the past couple of weeks. I seems like a very respectful guy and he seems to remember minor details about me and such.

It just figures huh.. when a guy is tooo nice and everything a gentleman should be we question and cant get enjoy it. I have been hurt plenty before so its hard for me to put my guard down :(