Ask the Dating Doyenne

Think about what you have to gain vs. what you have to lose.

If you tell him how you feel, you will lose your boyfriend, put their friendship in jeopardy, and risk your friendship with your best girl friend.

Situations like this, best friends dating/being interested in one another, are messy. You take a lot of risks dating someone who is in your close circle of friends. I'm not sure this can work out with you getting exactly what you want and losing nothing in the process. There will be a lot of hurt feelings either way. You need to determine if revealing your feelings to this guy is worth the price of your current relationship, possible rejection, and hurt feelings from your best friend and boyfriend. I can't make that choice for you.

I agree with the previous poster, especially in that only you can determine what you should do, and I think she's given you a lot to think about with her post.

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