I've reconnected with my ex recently, and I think we both still have feelings for each other... LONG DISTANCE?
I dated this guy back in 2002. We recently reconnected when he invited me out to visit him for a weekend. A few months ago I ended a five year relationship, and the trip was a nice get away from all of the drama with my breakup.
We had a great time just hanging out, we didn't plan a whole lot of activities. It did take a little bit to warm up to each other again, because it had been three years since we had seen each other. He lives by himself and works full time, and I will graduate in May. He kept hinting that I should move to where he lives when I'm done with school, but I don't know if it was a joke or something real. We didn't kiss, didn't fool around or anything, we just fell asleep "spooning" on the couch and took a nap. That was it- nothing more.
Ever since I've gotten back home, he's been randomly texting me and I cannot stop thinking about him. We have such a fun and relaxing relationship with each other and I am starting to have feelings for him again... however I don't know how it could work long distance... He lives five states away!
He keeps texting me things that make me feel like he has the same feelings for me again... am I nuts? He travels alot for work and is always keeping me updated on where he is (which I find kind of wierd) but then he always says something like "Just telling you where I am in case you want to come visit".
I'm so confused. I just don't know how it would work and I'm too afraid to bring it up without looking like a freak.
We were both young before (18) and he was looking to transfer to another school. Neither of us were mature enough to be in a serious relationship, let alone one that was across state lines . His hometown in IL is an hour away from mine, and I told him that he better look me up when he comes home for Christmas... his reponse was "Trust me, you'll be the first one to know".
Do I wait it out, see him over Christmas and then go from there? After graduation, I have nothing tying me down, however I also am not going to move half way across the country on a whim or "possible" relationship.
Any advice? Do I talk to him about it?