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I just get confused about how I can know whether my bf has another girl at the same time? It does not mean he has, I just wanna know generally how to know it. Honestly, I really do not like such kind of thought, cz I know I should have spent the time thinking for such thing in other meaningful and happy things, such as gym, dancing, hang out with friends... Yet I still wanna know the answer to it. Ppl here always talk about Trust, however, I think ppl are changing, surroundings are chaning, it is not easy to find a 100% trust in today's world. What do u guys think?
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Have you had the exclusivity talk? If so, then it is safe to assume he doesn't unless you have evidence to make you believe otherwise. If you have not had that talk, assume he is seeing another girl until he tells you differently.
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Hi - this is off-topic, but could you email me at relationshipscm@mail.ivillage.com or through my member profile?

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