i'm sorry i have not been on. i can't use my laptop at home, my husband watches everything i do. i'm afaid if i left it home, while i was at work he would put a key stroke monitor on my laptop, so i leave it at work. i barely have anytime to use it. i have a couple of min. i went back to the doctor for a second ultrasound, still the same. the nurse was surprised the doctor never took a blood test to see if i have started to miscarry, or a urine sample. she seems to think the baby died. my body wont abort it though, most likely i will have to have a dnc done, unless my absorbs the baby. my body is in limbo, so is my mind. i believe god took my baby as karma. thanks for caring. tuesday i should have more answers. my x-ap has been very supportive to me through this also.
Hi Moonunit, Did the nurse take a blood test now? I am so so sorry for you, I know you loved the baby even though it was still so tiny. please let us know how you keep doing, okay?
the nurse did not take a blood test either. i called the doctor today, the tests are not back yet. it's the not knowing that's killing me. except for the 2 days i bled and the one day last week with severe cramps, nothing else has happened. so i'm wondering if the baby coulod be ok, or my body just took in the baby. like i said it's not knowing now that's killing me.
Aw yes, I can imagine that that's hard, not knowing anything!! Your doctor (is he a gynecologist?) and his tests are so slow! Can't they give you another ultrasound? Praying for you.