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Hi!

I am currently almost 2 weeks from my due date and have a very big problem. My boyfriend found an e-mail from an ex that probebly didnt sound very good to him, even though it was harmless and i should have deleted it. Now he doesnt think the baby is his and hasnt spoken to me in 3 days, he wants a DNA test but still wants to be there for the birth. I dont know what to do, there is no possible way the baby isnt his but he doesnt believe me. im very stressed out and i dont know what i can do to fix this, i agreed to a DNA test, but until that can be done, things are very strained. please help!

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Welcome to the board!!!!

I am so sorry that you are experiencing pain when you should be experiencing so much joy. Was the email saved on your computer from an earlier time or are you still communicating with him at the moment? I know you didn't intend to hurt his feelings. However, I'm sure he is having many mixed emotions since the baby is about to be born. I have never been pregnant but I'm sure everyone involved gets certain feelings. I applaud you for agreeing to a DNA test. He ha the right to know the truth. Hopefully, this (e-mails) will not become a recurring issue and the two of you can progress towards a happier family!

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It has been a while since you last posted and I know you're even closer to your due date, or a mommy now - how are you doing?


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