discussion title:
Who do you miss most at the holidays?
message #:
340.4 in response to 340.2
I miss my 19 year old niece.
My ex husband and I raised her from ages 7 to 16, when she went to live with her mother.
She took our divorce very hard and to keep peace in her family (she is the daughter of my ex husbands sister) she does not call or visit me. I send her gifts and cards with a fake name and address on them.
I feel as if I have lost a daughter, and hope that one day soon I can have her in my life again. I miss her terribly, but I stay out of her life since it would only hurt her if her family found out that she spends time with me.