Guy Talk

It's a common complaint from men that women lose interest in sex after marriage. I lost quite a bit of interest sooner than that, though. When I was young, I couldn't wait to have sex. I thought about it a lot, it seemed like it would be one of life's greatest experiences.

But single guys and now my husband always wanting it, tricking me into it, complaining they don't get it enough no matter how much they get, it feels more like something to run from half the time. (yet I put out nearly every day!)

When something is over-available it always gets less exciting. It's even worse having something pushed at you over and over at times when you're not in the mood.

What if women kept begging men to cuddle with them, whether they felt like it or not, disregarding what mood the guy was in, or what else he was planning to do in the moment.  Punishing them by pouting and arguing when they say no. And never being satisfied with what he gave.

I bet after a while they'd HATE the thought of cuddling anyone, ever.

" I bet after a while they'd HATE the thought of cuddling anyone, ever."

I dont know about other men but please dont try this on your husband or you may lose him.forever.
and no,if one woman in all her craziness takes the route suggested above,it doesnt mean that the man will give up sex.all he will do is find another woman who will be more compatible sexually.

Check out the Mismatched libido board.  http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlclashing   You will see many posts from women who have the opposite complaint, they want sex but their man doesn't have the interest.

It's not a male thing or female thing, it's about each individual's libido.

"What if women kept begging men to cuddle with them, whether they felt like it or not, disregarding what mood the guy was in, or what else he was planning to do in the moment.  Punishing them by pouting and arguing when they say no. And never being satisfied with what he gave. "

What you think women don't constantly ask, beg, complain all the time about things from their guys?  It's just not about sex.  Just a difference in the genders as to what they seek and what the other hates.   :-)   Been that way for a long, long, long, long time.  You know, the Mars/Venus thing.

As for having sex every day, you can say no.  No one can trick you into sex.  You're allowing it to happen.   Most women do in relationships.  Of course that will bring up discourse in the relationship but so do many other things in a relationship bring up discourse.  It's up to the 'couple' to work out things so it's hopefully a workable compromise for both partners.