This is why I am of the opinion that people as young as you shouldn't be dating and worrying about how to relate to the opposite sex. Yet. At your age; and in my opinion of course, you should be doing things. Things like riding horses, riding bikes, fishing, whatever you're in to. Right now you don't have enough experiences under your belt to be able to talk about much. And the rest of us on this board whose over 25 y/o will tell you.....when left with nothing to do, teenagers will end up sexually active. And if you don't have life experience enough to talk.....sex shouldn't even be put on the table.
I don't want to come off like I'm talking down to you. I have a 15 y/o son and what he and his friends do is they will meet up; a group of boys and a group of girls, at the rollerskating rink or movie house and just have fun. A few years from now my son should have enough social "notches" on his belt, that when he is ready for a relationship, he'll have something to talk about.
Just my 2 cents.