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mustofbeentheroses

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Oct-26 7:39 am

I have a platonic friendship with a married man, whom i must admit i am attracted to. We became friends thru an art gallery. I have known him for several years, but lately, i've noticed when he sees me, theres a bulge in his pants(aroused) within 5 mins of seeing me. And then he ignores me for a while after he sees me, as if to control himself. Nothing has changed about our friendship. He's been a great friend, but lately he's been becoming more distant, esp when he gets a bulge in front of me. It's like he's embarrassed. Whats going on?

Edited 10/26/2009 8:07 am ET by mustofbeentheroses

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Oct-26 8:40 am

Maybe the fact that you're staring at his crotch has something to do with his "arousal"! Try to look elsewhere.

As for what's going on, he's a married man, and he's taking the "high road" and probably you should do the same, meaning "hands off". Find yourself a single man! If you can't keep your eyes off his crotch, maybe it's time to see less of this "platonic" friend.

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Oct-27 6:05 am

You didn't even broach the subject of answering my question... all you did was accuse and attack me. For the record, my hands have never been on him and its a natural thing to be attracted to people.. what a person chooses to do with their attraction is up to them. And haven't you ever heard of peripheral vision??? I certainly do NOT "stare" at his crotch...that's really tacky and i would never do that in front of everyone.

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Oct-27 7:05 am

He's sexually attracted to you but doesn't want you to know.

Hey if it's ok for men to sneak a peek at our boobs, then looking at their crotch once in a while is fair game!

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Oct-27 7:09 am

You are not naive,just want to hear nice and loud.

When this guy sees you,there is a bulge in his pants because you arouse him and he gets a feeling of having sex with you there and then but
he is avoiding you as he realizes that he cant do it and doesnt want you to know ( unfortunately you have seen).

Friendship has changed,you realize it or not.He now has seen you as a woman ,not just a friend.

I hope you can understand now.