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Is this guy interested?? What ya think?

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  Oct-30 2:06 pm

So I like this guy at work... We don't work together just at the same company. I see him  sometimes (he's so gorgeous!! Lol). He's in his 30's and I'm 23.  I liked him 3yrs ago when I first started but I left that building and never saw him for over 2yrs. And I just recently returned.

Well, I've noticed him looking at me a few times and when I look up he looks away. But then you know sometimes we can like someone and imagine we're getting signals. Lol. So idk but I do know I've noticed it more than once for a fact. So we finally made eye contact yesterday. And he held my gaze for a bit then looked down and away. I don't know how I was able to continue looking at him, normally I can't I have to look away. Lol. Today I saw him in the cafeteria (it was empty except for me and the 3 guys he was sitting with. I was talking to a server behind the counter).I was talking and when I looked across the room I saw him looking straight at me. Like it was so unexpected. We looked at each other for a few seconds  again and I looked away quickly. Nervous. He was looking at me so intensely... for real. Do you think  he may be interested. Why was he looking at me like that. or why did he hold eye contact with me so long both times. What it just because I was looking at himthe day before? What should I do next?? I'm too nervous and shy to make a move. I wasn't sure he'd be interested (not cuz I'm ugly. I'm far from it and so is he but because of age difference and our positions at work. He's a manager but not where I work. Like I rarely see him at work.)  but now I'm not sure.  If ya need more info just ask. I really want to know! it's so easy to read into something. LOL. THANX
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  Oct-30 2:42 pm

Next time you see him smile at him.

 
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  Oct-30 11:42 pm

Maybe he's looking at you because he wonders what YOU're looking at!  So he's gorgeous........but what do you know about him?  He's ten years older than you, and might be married or in a relationship. 

If he's NOT married or in a relationship, at his age, if he was interested, he would TALK to you.......he's not 16, he's a grown man and that's what men do if they're interested in someone.

If you're that interested......then maybe  you should talk to HIM!  That's what adults do.  Talk to each other.
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  Nov-1 10:04 pm

I agree that at 30yo+ he could already be in a relationship or married, but I also wonder if he is hesistant about asking you out because you are younger than him. I would say, from what you've told us, that the odds are good that he finds you attractive. I don't know if he's single. I don't know if he's looking for a g/f right now. I don't know what is going on in his head. But the age gap is one thing that might be making him hesitate.
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  Nov-2 10:42 am

I agree with the last two posters it might have something to do with age or he could already be in a relationship but more than likely ....since he is a manager (i am assuming you aren't) that puts both of you and possibly the company in a bad position.  Sometimes work relationships work out but when they don't, they can get really uncomfortable, and sometimes ugly (for people involved, co-workers, and company).  Do you even know the policy of your company about dating cooo-workers?  And also he needs to think about his position within the company, would his job be worth it.

It takes a certain maturity and understanding for a romantic relationship between co-workers, not to interfer with the professional aspect.....Most people can't keep it separate.
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