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Why husbands who clean...
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23045.3 in response to 23045.1
I dunno. For me it's just a given that DH will do his share, and sometimes "surprise" me by doing a bunch of extra stuff too. And it's also a given that we're going to have sex. So I don't know if there is a correlation LOL.
But I can see where I would be less into DH if he was a lazy husband who expected me to do every single thing in our home. Then I might not be as sexually attracted to him.
I knew a woman who had 3 kids and the most her hubby ever did was play with them for 15 min. He never changed a diaper or anything at all. She did all of the housework, took out the trash, mowed the lawn, everything. She and her husband both worked full-time too. I couldn't be in that situation period.