Hot Topic: Catch Him Cheating

Long story, buts lets try to make it short as possible.

I met this guy on the Internet about 4 months ago. We talked for a while and dated shortly after. We live relatively close so the long distance issue really wasn't all that bad. Midway through the relationship, I felt that I didn't have the same feelings he had for me. The more I continued to date him, the more I realized just how much I wanted to just be friends with him.

I'm not one of these women who is afraid to let a guy know how I feel because I'm afraid I will hurt their feelings. Never been in my autonomy. However, lately he had been going through a lot with a bunch of person issues from family to work and so on. I just didn't feel like there was ever a good time to tell him I just wanted to be friends after some of the conversations we had.

So what's the "cold" part? Well I hadn't heard from my now ex-bf for two weeks. I was obviously concerned and thought of the worse such as death. I had no way of contacting his family b/c I had no #. I only had his cell # and e-mail from the site we met on. I had called and text him tryin to find out if he was ok constently.

 Well 5 days ago, I go back onto the site we met on to see if he had tried to contact me on there. Come to find out, while I hadn't gotten any returned text or calls, he had been back on the site I guess prowling. Here I was concerned that something horrible had happend, hadn't heard from him in over 2 weeks and he had been back on the site in recent days, im guess chatting with women. He was on again last night.

Instead of calling me and letting be know like a decent person would do, he just stopped calling and taking my calls. Mind you, we were still dating at the time.Thing is, the last time we talked, things were good. I suspected nothing of this nature from him. He was his normal self. We laughed and joked and all. Then... this happens out of no where. He use to tell me all the time how I was the only person who didn't judge him for his neurological illness. His own family treated him like 2nd class because of his condition; but me? No. I treated him like I treat everyone who I think has a good heart.

I did not cry over this or lose any sleep. I was shocked but that is honestly all the emotion I've felt. Ok, im a little pissed but it wasn't that he went back on the site, it was the way he "broke it off" with me. I haven't called him in 5 days and am moving on. He isn't worth the time.

If he does ever call again, I won't curse him out because im not bitter. I will however, let him know the kind of person he truely is and I didn't drop a single tear for him. Sometimes the best way to get back at a person who hurt you is with kindness. It really does kill to them. Plus, I have karma on my side...